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I never did mean permanent bans; though potentially long-term, anyway.

It's not an excuse, no. Syndromes aren't licenses to run rampant. If you're going to take part in a society you do need to, you know, take part. I don't really recall that as being a deficit of either disorder though, but I won't say it isn't I guess. Even if you naturally feel aggravated or whatever by criticism, it's about realizing when that happens, and trying to take a step back to figure out what's going on. It may be a struggle, but it's certainly something you can do if you put your mind to it. It's probably going to be difficult to notice exactly when something is simply a criticism that's affecting you, I don't know, but you should at least be able to notice the response to your response after it, and use that moment to take a step back and realize that the former statement wasn't laced with ill intent or anything, and apologize for taking it in a terrible way or whatever. I'm not entirely sure what the issue is, I guess, but I assume it's something like that.

Political, not personal. In the sense that it may be something that you do, that he's making a statement about, but it's not about you specifically, and rather those actions that others are doing as well.